QUESTION
HOW DO YOU CHOOSE BETWEEN A PARTNER YOU LOVE AND YOUR NEED TO HAVE CHILDREN (The partner cannot have children) AND IF YOU DECIDE TO GO WITH LOVE WILL YOU REGRET IT LATER ON? (The ages are 43 man and 50 the woman). – E
ANSWER
Dear E
As I keep saying, there is no right or wrong decision! Each choice you make will have different results! Not better or worse, just different! What is important for you to realise is that whatever choice you make, you stand behind it like a hero and experience it in the most creative and joyful way!
In essence, you have 2 choices:
a) to stay,
b) to leave the relationship.
Each one of these 2 choices has another 2 choices:
a) to experience the choice and the result from the choice in a destructive way,
b) to experience the choice and the result from the choice in a creative way!
Regret, doubt, sorrow, grief, indecision, blaming, neediness and anguish are all destructive ways of experiencing any choice you make! Whether you stay or leave it’s the same!!
Certainty, happiness, joy, responsibility, freedom, independence, calmness and love are creative ways of dealing with any situation! Whether you stay or leave it’s the same!!
So whatever you choose, choose it with LOVE!
Annie Pattichi
Transformational Life Coach
HOW DO YOU CHOOSE BETWEEN A PARTNER YOU LOVE AND YOUR NEED TO HAVE CHILDREN (The partner cannot have children) AND IF YOU DECIDE TO GO WITH LOVE WILL YOU REGRET IT LATER ON? (The ages are 43 man and 50 the woman). – E
ANSWER
Dear E
As I keep saying, there is no right or wrong decision! Each choice you make will have different results! Not better or worse, just different! What is important for you to realise is that whatever choice you make, you stand behind it like a hero and experience it in the most creative and joyful way!
In essence, you have 2 choices:
a) to stay,
b) to leave the relationship.
Each one of these 2 choices has another 2 choices:
a) to experience the choice and the result from the choice in a destructive way,
b) to experience the choice and the result from the choice in a creative way!
Regret, doubt, sorrow, grief, indecision, blaming, neediness and anguish are all destructive ways of experiencing any choice you make! Whether you stay or leave it’s the same!!
Certainty, happiness, joy, responsibility, freedom, independence, calmness and love are creative ways of dealing with any situation! Whether you stay or leave it’s the same!!
So whatever you choose, choose it with LOVE!
Annie Pattichi
Transformational Life Coach
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